What’s all the screaming about? Why do you fight, when love would solve the problem? You find yourself taking blame for all that happens in your life, and to a point this is good… if the blame was just acknowledgment of what is, and the taking was to work it out to your advantage.
You see, you do attract all this drama in your life. Even though you swore off the aggravation, there is still a little piece of you that likes the excitement of doing something to make life turn to your advantage. You’re a fighter, and sometimes fighting for what is right, makes it wrong. For the trust in the change you desire, works the same without the frustration to your soul.
You are a precious child of this earth. You came here to make a difference, and a difference you will make – once you take a step back and learn to love thyself.
Doing that which brings you no joy will never enhance your creativity, you know. For you were not meant to suffer through this life. You came here to have fun, to experience life and all it has to offer.
Everything you do is a choice, yet sometimes we choose not to believe in ourselves. Not to embrace our true value as a person. When this happens, we attract more of the same situations to mirror our beliefs. Now we find ourselves in a life that is disappointing and our direction keeps following that which supports our beliefs.
We ask of you, dear ones to search for the good in life. To notice that which you take for granted for once it is gone you will suffer its loss and reinforce your belief of a difficult life. Instead, see that which is good in life, a roof over your head, a warm dinner or family and friends, and bask in the joy of having these (simple) things. By doing this you will feel the happiness it brings and in turn you will notice other things that bring this same joy. Before you know it, you will be attracting more of the same. You will know life is good because you make it good. You will know you have options and you will reach for the options that make you happy.
Again, life is choice… choices have feelings, how do you choose to feel?
What is free will? You think you can do whatever you want and the results are what you deserve, but we say the results are what you ask for. Free will is your choice to experience life to decide if this is what is wanted or if there is another direction you want to move toward.
Sometimes life seems difficult, we know, but it is in the difficulty that you realize what you want in life. Emotion is a good indicator if you are moving in the direction you desire, so pay close attention to your feelings.
When we are happy, we sometimes forget we can create more of these feelings. We think that is all there is, but we say no – your happiness is your choice. Then there are times we are sad and we forget these emotion are also a choice. It seems difficult to change emotions when we are feeling down, but when you can reach for a happier feeling, your sadness will begin to dissolve.
So, this being said – free will is a gift, for it teaches you your wants and desires and it allows you to change them to what you desire to become.
Dear ones, we have been guiding you to pay attention to your thoughts and feelings for this is the direction your life will move toward and most of you understand this and some of you do not but still work on thinking positive and we say this works well for being positive creates more positive moments in life.
Now the confusion sets in when you know how you want to think and believe and you find yourself in life situations that seem to all move toward pain and frustration. It is easy to forget that by being sad or angry that you are creating more of the same. When this happens it tends to become more overwhelming for your beliefs are supporting more of the same. And you do not understand why so many upsetting things tend to all happen at once, and we say dear one, this is your choice. By choosing to be upset, angry or sad (even though the life situation mirrors these emotions), you are creating more of the same. The universe works to give you what you believe so if you are not happy with what you are creating, we say change it.
We know this does take much effort on your part for you are not in the mood to ‘be happy’ when life is dishing out such sad events but again, remember it is all about choice. We ask you to stop, breathe deeply and release your breath slowly… accept the calmness and remember what is good in life. There is always good in life no matter how sad things are but it is up to you to focus on them. It could be as simple as a sunny day, a hot shower, a roof over your head or your favorite pair of shoes. Simple, we know but things that may make you happy.
Understand dear ones, you always have choice and what you choose to focus on is everything.
People come in and out of our lives, some are friends, some are acquaintances, some are even strangers. But none of them were by coincidence, not even that person you seen crossing the street. They have all made it to your attention for a reason. This is difficult for some to understand, though it is true.
We attract people who will help us in life, be it a loved one or even an abuser. You think that person who hurt you was none of your doing but no one can come into your life without your permission.
This being said, what kind of people are you attracting? Do your friends support you or do they hurt you? Take a close look at how you are treated and understand that it is you who is attracting this type of behavior.
Once your take responsibility for the people who surround you, knowing you have control over who you let into your life and how you allow yourself to be treated, then you can choose to learn from their kindness or work through the pain that is shared.