Relationships are Fun / Funny!

Relationships are funny in a way that we think we are in them, when sometimes we are not.  We think this person by our side will fulfill our needs, and we move forward believing we are taken care of, when we are really just accepting that which is.  We want more and accept less, for we think this is all we deserve from another.  We try harder to fill in the voids, so that it is not as painful that we are not getting what we want.

We want you to stop and feel your situation, ask yourself if this partner is giving you that which you desire, for in most cases it is not.  This is not a bad thing, for if you were not receiving all that you wanted, you would move on.  In other words, you must be receiving enough of that which is desired to stay where you are.  In some cases, it is from the fear of being alone, in others it may be the fear of not succeeding financially… there are so many reasons why we stay where we are not always happy.

We ask you dear one, to focus not on that which brings you lack or sadness in your relationship and to focus on that which you enjoy or that which makes you feel accepted.  For even if it is not much, it is enough to keep you together.  And when you focus on that which is good, it attracts more of the same.  When you can bring yourself to feel good about where you are (even when the bad outweighs the good), then it will be clear what feels good and if it is enough.

You see, we are wired to be happy, that is why it feels so bad to be sad.  We are here to experience happiness and so many forget this and accept what is, in order to do that which is expected of them or because they do not know what else to do.  FOCUS, dear ones on the good in your life (for it is always there), and you will start to remember what you are here for, and then desire more of that.  It will become clear that there is nothing which is worth you giving up your happiness, and it will bring you to find a way to make it work, or to move on.