Life is difficult we know, but this is because you have been misguided in life. There is always a choice and most will choose what they have been taught by others instead of what they desire.
Desires are surrounded by fear, fear of the unknown, fear of judgments, fear of failure, fear of embarrassment and fear of making a mistake. Tell me dear one, what do all these fears have in common? These fears are based off of other’s opinions of you.
When you are ready to follow your desires more than you want to please other’s opinions, well then you no longer have anything to lose and life becomes not only easier but more desirable.