But I Love Him / Her
Dear one, we hear your cries and feel your pain but we also understand you are blinded by love and do not see clearly. You do not understand how someone who loves you can hurt you so badly. You do not understand why someone who cares can walk away when you need them. You do not understand why your heart yearns for love yet the love you have has more pain than joy and we say, dear, dear one – listen closely for your attention is on the wrong person.
The person you desire does not give you what you want for he/she is not you. You depend on someone to do your job and then you suffer for it is not being done. Dear one, do not depend on him/her to bring you joy and you shall never be disappointed.
What is it that you want from another? To be loved unconditionally, to be treated kindly, to be admired for you abilities? We say think carefully for if this is what you are desiring from another, it is because it is what you are not giving to yourself.
You can not want for something that you have fulfilled yourself. Once you understand that no one can fill the voids of love other than yourself, then you will never look for another to help you love yourself. And then the ones you love will be all you will have desired.
