Desire Is Not What Most Think It Is
Desire can never be a bad thing even if it is something that may hurt another. Most have not learned that nothing bad can happen to them unless it is allowed by them. This being said, bad things that happen to good people are the desires of those good people unto themselves. This is difficult for most to grasp for we have been taught that if we are good, good things are given to us. Has this belief ever really come true to any good person?
Quit judging yourselves, believe you deserve good things happening to you and accept others as they are, for you are not them and it is not your job to fix them.