Judge Not
Some think those who are not in a good place in life are weak and lazy, though to live a life of undesirable existence, you have to be strong in order to ignore the signs for change. We are not saying that this is a desired experience; we are just saying that it is strength and maybe stubbornness to live what is not wanted and not try to change. We probably have you very confused right now because this is the opposite of what you have been taught all your life. That is because their strength is powered by their fear of changing and fear is looked down upon.
Fear is an amazing emotion, when learned early in life, one will find mechanisms to fight against it. Those in life that are not living their dreams because they are so strong are usually the ones who learned their strengths from surviving fearful experiences at a young age. They have lived through life having others more fortunate look down upon them to the point that they also believe in their failure. This is a lesson that is the most difficult to overcome for it is an ongoing cycle in life that has created an acceptance within. Once they can break through this fear and step out of their comfort zone of acceptance, these are the people who will accomplish the most in life.
