How to choose happiness when you are feeling sad?
You ask this as if it is difficult, dear one and we say it never is. Happiness is your birthright and not choosing it is a decision and not the other way round. There is only happiness, though we choose to believe otherwise for various reasons.
We set such high goals and when they do not manifest, we choose to be sad. When in actuality we should not have given our strength to the thought that we were finished. Goals are on going, they are always accomplished just may not happen in the time frame planned. A goal is never failed for it lives inside you and will resurface when it is time to work toward it again.
We sometimes choose to be ‘sad’ so that we can define why things are not turning out the way we want, weather it is a relationship, lack of money, feeling stuck in a situation or just not getting your way. When we choose to be said, we are giving up on our dreams because that is easier than working at the accomplishment of them.
Be open to what is wanted, do not ask for specifics for that will close you off to what is truly wanted. Look at the goal and not the lack of it. Feel what is wanted but do not put a face on it. You are truly blessed at all times and being happy is easy when the meaning of sadness is understood. Remember we are always with you, guiding you, believing in you and once you see yourself the way we do… happiness becomes the choice.