What Makes This Need To Be In A Relationship?
We all long for partners, friendship, love, commitment and companionship. We want someone we can talk to and can relate to our lives. This is natural, for we came here to co-exist with others. The problem is that many times our co-existence comes to an end and we do not accept this ending as a new beginning (as it always is) but as a loss. We then relate the loss and the feelings of emptiness as “bad” and we try everything we can to fill ourselves up again. This process will create ourselves to separate from who we really are and become whatever it takes to fill the void.
So what makes this need to be in a relationship so strong? Fear – Yes, fear. We are afraid of having to move forward alone. We are afraid of learning how to exist on our own after we had spent so much time learning how to exist with another person. We want the comfort of having someone there to help and listen.
The truth is that every relationship we have is to bring us closer to our life goal. We all came here with a goal or a mission and we attract others to help us in this pursuit. Have we lost you? You thought we were going to talk about how to get the perfect boyfriend or girlfriend and instead we work our way up to a life’s goal – come on! Though it is true, if it were not for the experience that brings you toward your mission, you would prefer to be alone.
